April 2026

Living Around Migraines Isn't Really Living:  Why I Created The ROOT Process

Because women deserve more than being told to "just manage it".

If you live with migraines, you already know they affect far more than just your head.

They affect your plans. Your energy. Your confidence. Your ability to say yes to things you want to enjoy.

A migraine can turn a normal workday into a day spent in a dark room. It can make you hesitate before committing to a family trip, a wedding, or even your child’s school event because you are always wondering: What if I get one that day?

For many women, migraines slowly become something life is built around. Medications are kept nearby. Dark sunglasses and earplugs are always on hand. Bright lights, strong smells, long drives, stress, hormones, and even simple daily activities can feel like possible triggers.

And after hearing “it’s genetic,” “it’s normal,” or “this is just something you may always deal with,” many women stop believing real relief is possible.

That is exactly why I created The ROOT Process a way to help women understand what may be driving their migraines, discover where the nervous system is being triggered, and begin reducing how often and how intense migraines become so life can feel open again.

Ground Zero: Where This Work Began

My understanding of chronic pain began years before I officially offered this work.

In 2008, I was a student in a physical therapy office where many of the patients were dealing with chronic pain conditions. Many of them had chronic migraines. I watched how carefully providers worked with them, how long progress could take, and how deeply migraines affected every part of daily life.

What stood out to me even then was how many people had accepted migraines as something permanent.

Many were doing everything they were told to do, yet progress often came slowly and required months of ongoing treatment.

Years later, this became personal.

In 2017, my normally happy son started waking up complaining that his head hurt, and he would be angry. Like many parents, my mind immediately went to worst-case possibilities. He had often had ear infections, and I was worried something else was going on.  As a mom, when your child says their head hurts repeatedly, it is hard not to imagine scans, appointments, and frightening answers.

Then I remembered the Myokinesthetic work I had learned.

Because children do not present the same way adults do, it took me three different treatment days in a row to find the exact approach his body responded to best. But once I found the right pattern, his pain improved.

That experience stayed with me because it showed me how quickly the body can respond when the nervous system is addressed in the right way — even when the answer is not obvious at first.

At that time, I was already working as a physical therapy assistant, but I was also beginning to feel pulled toward learning a different way to help people with pain. I wanted to work more directly with the root of chronic symptoms, without always being limited by what insurance allows or how long progress is expected to take inside traditional physical therapy settings.

That led me to massage school.

Later, when I returned for additional Myokinesthetic training, I began seeing even more clearly how effective this work could be for migraines.

I tested what I was learning on classmates who regularly missed school because of migraines, and the response was hard to ignore. Adults were responding too — often faster than they expected.

The more I learned, the more one question kept growing in my mind:

Why are so many women being told to simply live with this when there may be another path worth exploring?

The Gap I Refused To Ignore

One of the biggest reasons I created The ROOT Process is because there was a major gap in migraine care.

There are only a small number of practitioners in Arizona doing this kind of work.

Meanwhile, countless women continue hearing:

  • “It runs in your family.”

  • “You just have a tight neck (cervical dystonia).”

  • “Some women just get migraines.”

  • “Try this new medication they just came out with.”

For many women, migraines are treated as something to manage forever instead of something worth investigating more deeply.

And this is part of a bigger pattern: symptoms tied to hormones, cycles, and chronic pain are often dismissed as normal instead of explored more deeply.

That never sat right with me.

Because while medications absolutely have a place, many women are still left asking:

But why does this keep happening?

That question matters.

What The ROOT Process Helps Solve

The ROOT Process is designed to help women with three major challenges.

1. Understanding what may actually be triggering the migraine pattern

Many women have never been shown how nerve irritation, posture, muscular tension patterns, and nervous system overload can contribute to migraines.

A big part of this work is discovering which nerve root (or nerve pathway) may be creating the pattern that keeps triggering symptoms.

Instead of only asking where it hurts, we ask: "What is feeding the pattern underneath it?

2. Helping women experience real relief and renewed hope

When someone has had migraines for years, hope can feel dangerous.

Women are afraid to believe something might help because they have already tried so many things:  massage, chiropractic care, physical therapy, medications, supplements, and countless recommendations online.

When they begin noticing even small changes — lower intensity, shorter duration, fewer episodes — that often becomes the first time they realize life may not always have to revolve around migraines.

3. Helping women stop living in fear of the next migraine

This is often one of the most hidden struggles.

Migraines do not only create pain. They create uncertainty.

Women begin planning life around what might trigger symptoms.

  • They call in sick to work.

  • They miss their children’s sports, dance performances, and family outings.

  • They always have dark sunglasses and earplugs on hand for crowded events.

Over time, migraines create a quiet loss of freedom.

The ROOT Process is about helping restore some of that freedom.

The Moment That Made Everything Clear

One moment confirmed for me that this work needed to become part of what I offer.

A 10-year-old girl had developed a headache that had lasted three straight days, completely out of nowhere.

Her parents were preparing to take the next medical steps, discussing scans and trying to figure out what could possibly be wrong.

I did one treatment and the headache went away.

That was two years ago, and it has not returned in the same way.

That moment stayed with me because I kept thinking:

What if no one had addressed it that way? What path would she be on now?

Would she already be starting the same journey so many women know too well — repeated migraines, medications, fear, missed life, and years of trying to cope?

It also brought me back to my own son.

The same pattern appeared clearly:

If younger nervous systems can respond this quickly, why are so many women being told there is nothing more to explore?

The body often keeps asking for attention until the real issue is addressed.

And when it is ignored long enough, symptoms often become louder.

Why Am I Drawn To This Work

I am one of only a very small number of providers in Arizona using this specific Myokinesthetic approach.

But beyond that, I bring a perspective built over years of watching chronic pain up close.

I saw women in chronic physical therapy settings working hard for slow progress and it killed me that things took so long.

I watched how exhausting long-term pain becomes.

I also have family members who deal with chronic migraines and chronic pain, so I have seen the guilt that often comes with it: guilt for missing events, canceling plans, needing medication, resting, or feeling unreliable.

That emotional side matters.

Because migraines do not just affect the nervous system.

They affect identity.

What The ROOT Process Looks Like & How It Works

The ROOT Process is simple, focused, and built around what your body is showing.

It begins with a free consultation, where we talk through your migraine history, your patterns, and whether Myokinesthetic work seems like the right fit for your story.

If it is a good fit, the next step is a full postural evaluation followed by six Myokinesthetic sessions over two weeks. That schedule allows us to work consistently with the nervous system while your body is learning a new pattern.

Each session is designed around your posture, your symptom history, and the way your body is responding.

Sessions are short — usually 30 minutes or less. There are no oils, and you stay fully clothed.

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The name R.O.O.T. reflects the way I approach migraines: instead of only chasing symptoms, we look for what your body may be compensating for underneath them.

R — Reveal Posture Imbalances

We begin with a standing postural assessment to look for asymmetries and compensation patterns that often reveal where the nervous system is under stress.

O — Origin Identification

Next, we identify which nerve root may be driving the pattern. This helps us understand where the body may be getting stuck in an ongoing stress response.

O — Optimize with Targeted Myokinesthetic Treatment

Using gentle, precise muscle stimulation, movement, and stretching, we work along that specific nerve pathway to give the brain clearer input.

T — Transform and Reset

Help the body move out of constant stress so you can return to daily life with more freedom and less fear of the next migraine.

That is why the goal is not simply temporary relief — it is helping the body respond differently over time.

What Clients Often Tell Me...

One of the most meaningful things I heard from a client is this:

“I was scared to hope.”

That simple sentence says a lot.

Because hope can feel risky when you have already tried everything and still plan life around migraines.

Most clients come in after trying medications, changing routines, watching triggers, and doing their best to manage symptoms, yet still feeling unsure if anything will truly change.

I remember asking one client during her initial evaluation what her goal was for these sessions.

At the time, the client was having around 15 migraines a month. I asked her "What is your goal?"

Her answer was quiet and uncertain, “I don’t know… to feel better?”

That answer stayed with me because it reflected how careful she was about expecting too much.

After six sessions over two weeks, she admitted something important:

“That first day, I was scared to set a goal because so many things hadn’t worked before. Now I feel like I actually have some hope.”

That emotional shift matters just as much as the physical changes.

Because when clients begin noticing they need less medication, or they can sit through their child’s soccer game without worrying about how they will get through it, something deeper changes too.

They begin trusting their body again.

They begin making plans again.

They begin believing life may not always need to revolve around pain.

And often, that is the first time in a long time they can picture life without constantly preparing for the next migraine.

The Future I Hope For...

I want more women to understand that migraines are not always something they simply have to accept.

For so many women, the message has been the same for years: it is genetic, it runs in the family, it is hormonal, or it is just something you learn to live around.

And while those factors can absolutely be part of someone’s story, I do not believe that should automatically mean a woman is left with no other path except managing symptoms forever.

I want women to feel empowered to ask deeper questions about what their body may be saying.

Why is the nervous system reacting this way? Why does the body keep returning to the same pain pattern?

Because when we understand what the body is compensating for, the picture begins to change.

---> That does not mean every migraine disappears forever.

❤️ But it can mean fewer migraines.

❤️ It can mean less intensity.

❤️ It can mean shorter recovery time.

❤️ It can mean not losing entire days to pain.

❤️ It can mean being able to go on trips, sit in bright restaurants, walk through crowded events, or enjoy strong smells without worrying about it triggering a migraine that evening.

And even when a migraine does happen, it no longer last for days or completely takes over everything.

That kind of change matters.

I hope that more women begin seeing migraines as something that can often become manageable instead of something they are simply expected to tolerate.

That is where The ROOT Process fits into the future I want to help create:

A future where women understand their bodies better, feel less dismissed, and have more hope that life does not always have to revolve around pain.

If You Are Ready To Explore & Reclaim Your Life...

If you are tired of being told this is simply your normal, and you want to understand whether your body may be giving clues that have been missed, The ROOT Process may be worth exploring.

Your story matters.

Your symptoms deserve attention.

And there may be more possibilities than you have been told.

Book a free consultation and let’s see whether Myokinesthetic work may help you get to the root of what your body is asking for.

"I have been migraine free for a full week!  I used to have daily migraines from working under bright lights." -Kathy

"Charisse has helped me with my migraines.  She is amazing. I've never had relief from my pain and migraines like this.  I'm not on migraine medication and don't have migraines anymore." -Abby


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Charisse Merrill

LMT #MT-29646

Charisse is a wife and mom of five. Her greatest joy (after family) is helping people live pain-free. With over 12 years of history as a Physical Therapist Assistant and currently practicing as a Licensed Massage Therapist, she uses hands-on techniques to ease restrictions, boost mobility, and relieve pain for clients of all ages—from newborns to seniors.

 

She especially loves supporting women and children with migraines, headaches, or menstrual pain, and delights in clients saying, “I didn’t know it would ever go away.”

 

When not working, studying, cooking, or helping with homework, she’s running, reading, or enjoying the Arizona sunshine.